My ranch-cat turned house cat, Jack Henry, living with friendly but older person as roommate, who does get to go out, would love a playdate with Greenberg. J-H gets lonely (I toss balls but don't romp) since no cats come to visit, and he just loves it when Rufus from downstairs (golden doddle) stops off for a romp up and down the hallway from time to time. Owner and cat would be friendly, warm and welcoming. Forget those groupies in the park.
Terrific, Leah, That HS popularity business is tricky. I know people claim to love HS, but it's really hard to believe when you're in daily competition for things that are usually unimportant. 'Outcaste' or nearly is what I think all artists can identify within themselves. Yes, I like the Groucho quip, too, but it doesn't totally resolve the pain of cliquishness. As some consolation, keep in mind what they're missing! Not only an excitable but charming pooch --- but a chance to know you!
What a wonderful reply. Never goes away, does it? I wonder if there are people on this earth who never once felt that way, that uncerainty about their own place in the world? xx
Leah: Funny but serious— my dog Dobby has similar problems stemming from his “reactivity” with other dogs. It makes me sad that I had to decide we can’t go to the dog park anymore because some old ladies with frou-frou dogs (my term for fluffy tiny guys who are treated like little human babies) get upset because Dobbs likes rough play. Rossmoor is full of the froufrous. Dog-owners can be snooty and cliquey, especially breed- specific groups. I do feel that D is getting mopey and needs more social time. I am working on acquiring a suitable kitty so Dobbs can have a playmate, but that’s not an easy thing either. A second dog is probably a better solution but I don’t feel up to that….
So touched by your wonderful note! Painting or no painting, hope we can meet for a cup of tea in the fall Xxxx
My ranch-cat turned house cat, Jack Henry, living with friendly but older person as roommate, who does get to go out, would love a playdate with Greenberg. J-H gets lonely (I toss balls but don't romp) since no cats come to visit, and he just loves it when Rufus from downstairs (golden doddle) stops off for a romp up and down the hallway from time to time. Owner and cat would be friendly, warm and welcoming. Forget those groupies in the park.
Jeanne
Thanks, Sandy, and welcome home!
So great that you responded and shared the pain. Still, those dogs give us more pleasure than grief. When do I get to see you?
Dear Greenberg: To paraphrase Groucho Marx, ""You should refuse to join any club that won't have Leah as a member."
My application for DAR has been rejected!
Brava!
I was hoping the “others” with their perfect dogs turned out to be a group of Trump cultists.
Unfortunately, probably not. If that were the case, i cd feel superior
Terrific, Leah, That HS popularity business is tricky. I know people claim to love HS, but it's really hard to believe when you're in daily competition for things that are usually unimportant. 'Outcaste' or nearly is what I think all artists can identify within themselves. Yes, I like the Groucho quip, too, but it doesn't totally resolve the pain of cliquishness. As some consolation, keep in mind what they're missing! Not only an excitable but charming pooch --- but a chance to know you!
What a wonderful reply. Never goes away, does it? I wonder if there are people on this earth who never once felt that way, that uncerainty about their own place in the world? xx
Always love reading about your walks. I feel like I'm there with you.
Always a pleasure dear Leah!! And I agree with Frank!! Thank you, xx Sandy
oh, greenberg. oh, leah. i'm smiling and tearing up in exquisite recognition and identification.
thank you for such a beautiful essay <3
Leah: Funny but serious— my dog Dobby has similar problems stemming from his “reactivity” with other dogs. It makes me sad that I had to decide we can’t go to the dog park anymore because some old ladies with frou-frou dogs (my term for fluffy tiny guys who are treated like little human babies) get upset because Dobbs likes rough play. Rossmoor is full of the froufrous. Dog-owners can be snooty and cliquey, especially breed- specific groups. I do feel that D is getting mopey and needs more social time. I am working on acquiring a suitable kitty so Dobbs can have a playmate, but that’s not an easy thing either. A second dog is probably a better solution but I don’t feel up to that….
A touching, wonderful piece of writing Leah. Thank you. I will never watch a dog-romp again in the same way.
Thanks, Jeanie! Give ‘em a scratch behind the ears
I love Greenberg. :)
And he loves you back
Please return to New York, Leah. We have dogs, dog parks, friendly humans and treats. Especially in Riverside Park.
In fact, just yesterday, I ran into a man who turns out to be the only person in Manhattan who doesn’t own a dog. ;)
I’m a San Franciscan and a New Yorker. We do it better in Gotham.
Plenty of friendly people and dogs here, too. Greenberg was just unwelcome at this Panhandle party.
Greenberg is welcome to come to Sausalito and play with Rocky and Rio
One day he will! Rocky and Rio just right for friendship with him. Same size so Not a threat!
That would be wonderful. It would make Rocky Rio and me extremely happy especially if you could join us.
Fabulous article, Leah!!!!
I love the First Amendment for dogs--I will remember this important fact when Cowboy can't help himself.
Cowboy and Greenberg could be a kind of outsider alliance